Skip to main content
0
Favorite products 0
You don't have any favorite products yet.
0,00 € 0
Shopping cart 0
Shopping cart is empty.
Delivery methods
dispensing point Zásilkovna
1.96 €
dispensing point Balíkovna
1.96 €
dispensing point DPD
1.96 €
dispensing point GLS
2.36 €
dispensing point PPL
2.36 €
Free shipping from 59 €

BDSM toys for men
for gays

BDSM toys for men represent a specialized and diverse segment of adult gear designed for exploring dominance, submission, restraint, and sensory stimulation.

BDSM practices allow individuals and couples to safely navigate boundaries of control, surrender, pleasure, and consensual pain.

Male BDSM culture is built on mutual trust and clear communication, where properly selected props enhance both the psychological intensity and physical sensations. At Erosstar, you will find a complete selection of male fetish equipment, ranging from beginner-friendly starter kits to advanced gear for experienced players.

What male BDSM gear can you find in our collection?

Using our category filters, you can browse through all key subcategories tailored for male fetish and BDSM play:

  • CBT (Cock & Ball Torture): Rings, stretchers, weights, and clamps engineered for targeted stimulation and intense pressure on male genitalia.

  • Chastity cages: High-grade metal and silicone devices for orgasm denial, placing total control into the hands of the dominant partner.

  • Bondage ropes, straps & restraints: Leather, fabric, and metal handcuffs and ankle cuffs paired with durable bondage ropes for complete immobilization.

  • Whips, spankers & paddles: Impact tools crafted for various levels of skin stimulation and spanking.

  • Wartenberg wheels, ticklers & BDSM candles: Essential props for sensory play – from feather tickling to cool metal sensations and low-temp wax dripping.

  • Masks, collars & gags: Gear designed for sensory deprivation, anonymity, and symbolic submission.

  • Latex, vinyl & BDSM sets: Value kits for beginners alongside sleek fetish wear.

Safety and selecting the right BDSM equipment

When choosing male BDSM toys, material quality and strict adherence to SSC principles (Safe, Sane, Consensual) are essential. Beginners should start with softer materials such as neoprene, silicone, or soft leather before progressing to stainless steel.

Always keep safety shears within reach during bondage or CBT play and agree on safewords. Count on 100% discreet packaging delivered fast from Erosstar.

Most selling

EasyToys Small Leather Flogger
  • Gift tip
  • Bestseller
  • 4.7
In stock
9,96 €

Was your partner naughty? This toy is a must-have for punishing him/her badly! Both the handle and the tassel are made of leather for a more stylish look.

Long silicone dilator with Sinner Gear ring
  • 3
In stock
7,80 €

Sinner Gear long silicone dilator with practical loop for handling. Total length 16 cm. Dilator diameter 5 mm. An elegant dilator with a stimulating body. Elastic and flexible. Pleasant to the touch. The waves create a pleasant stimulation.

Boss Series Feather Tickler (Black)
  • 4
In stock
3,80 €

Delicate shimmering feather with wand. Playful treatment and pleasant feelings of intimate excitement. Twilight length 28 cm. A pleasant feeling around sensitive erogenous zones, evoking feelings of passion and arousing the right atmosphere.

Devil Sticks Heart Crop Polished Leather
  • Gift tip
  • 5
In stock
11,80 €

This playful whip from the Devil Sticks range combines an innocent, romantic theme with intense physical stimulation, transforming an ordinary slap into an exciting declaration of love with every stroke.

In stock
7,80 €

Speciální svíčky Wax Games tají při nízké teplotě, takže zajistí bezpečnou, ale neuvěřitelně intenzivní smyslovou stimulaci s každou dopadající kapkou.

Bad Kitty Anal Hook Restraint Set, anal hook bondage set
  • New
In stock
31,80 €

Bondage set with cuffs, gag and anal hook for softer BDSM play. Delivers hands-behind-back restraint, anal pressure, adjustable straps and a silicone gag ball with air holes for easier breathing.

Fetish Submissive Handcuffs
  • Gift tip
  • 5
In stock
19,80 €

Robust black cuffs with metal strap and adjustable length. A high-quality metal buckle will ensure a comfortable grip. Made of vegan leather. Experience passionate moments of excitement to the fullest with Fetish Submissive cuffs.

In stock
7,80 €

100% cotton is the answer - soft on the skin, strong in the knots, reliable for your first and advanced experiments.

Lover's Fantasy Kit
  • 3
In stock
15,80 €

Discover new dimensions of passion! This set is perfect for those who want to explore the world of bondage and SM. Metal handcuffs, a blindfold and a whip will open the door to unexpected experiences.

Bad Kitty - bed bondage
  • Gift tip
  • Bestseller
  • 5
In stock
23,80 €

When it comes to passion, comfort is key. Our foam-padded handcuffs ensure that your games will be free of bruises and discomfort.

In stock
7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

Bad Kitty Hand/Leg Restraints (Red)
  • Gift tip
  • Bestseller
  • 5
In stock
35,80 €

Bondage set of handcuffs on the wrists and thighs. Handcuffs tastefully imitate real leather. High quality material in elegant red color. Sexy accessory perfect BDSM enjoyment. The set contains 2 handcuffs on the wrists and thighs.

Fetish Submissive Collar With Leash
  • 5
In stock
19,80 €

Solid collar with Fetish Submissive leash. Made of vegan leather. The black, robust design of the collar evokes respect. Adjustable length. Included leash on a long steel chain.

Silicone Dilator Vibe grey
  • 5
In stock
23,80 €

Did you know that the right dilator can completely change your experience? Our product offers 7 quiet vibration rhythms that you can easily control with one button. Start discovering new sensations right out of the box.

Bondage Tape 15 m (Black)
  • 5
In stock
7,80 €

Did you know that Bondage Tape does not stick to skin or hair? It is made of 100% polyvinyl chloride. This means that you can experiment without worrying about unpleasant tearing or pain. Safety and comfort in the first place!

In stock
9,96 €

Stimulation wheel in silver Sinner Gear Pinwheel 1-Wheel. Total length including grip is 17 cm. Made of high quality stainless steel (nickel-free). A firm grip that does not slip and holds naturally. Very sharp spikes.

You2Toys Glans Ring and Dilator
  • 5
In stock
19,80 €

A unique combination of glans ring and dilator in one product. Experience intense sensations from both functions at the same time. The purple ring encircles the glans, the silver dilator is gently inserted into the urethra.

PVC sheet 200x230 cm - black
  • Bestseller
In stock
19,80 €

Turn every night into an adventure without worrying about the mess. Our easy-to-clean PVC sheet is the secret key to endless nights of joy. Perfect for those who want comfort and passion without compromise.

Show more products

Articles

FAQ for BDSM toys for men

  • What does CBT stand for in BDSM and what gear is included?

    CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. It includes devices designed for pressure, weight, or sensory stimulation of male genitals – such as ball stretchers, testicle weights, clamps, and heavy-duty metal rings.

  • How do regular candles differ from specialized BDSM candles?

    BDSM candles are made from wax with a low melting point (typically around 48–52 °C / 118–125 °F). When dripped onto the skin, they provide an exciting warm sensation without burning or blistering the skin like regular paraffin candles.

  • What is a Wartenberg pinwheel used for?

    A Wartenberg wheel is a medical instrument with radiating sharp pins used in BDSM for nerve stimulation. Rolling it across the skin produces an intense, prickly sensation that heightens sensitivity without breaking the skin.

  • What BDSM gear is best for complete beginners?

    Complete BDSM starter sets are ideal for beginners. They typically include soft fabric or faux-leather cuffs, a blindfold, a simple ball gag, and a feather tickler, allowing you to explore restraint and sensory play affordably.

  • How should I care for leather, latex, and metal BDSM gear?

    Wash metal and silicone items with warm water and use an adult toy disinfectant. Wipe leather products with a damp cloth and apply leather balm. Clean latex garments with specialized latex shampoo and polish with silicone spray.

Loading, please wait...